„It’s a romantic thought, but I don’t believe in it. Love is amazing and wonderful and fun, but it is also a lot of work. You know when your mom or sister tells you “love is a choice, not a feeling” — it can be annoying, but it is true. The butterflies and crushes can fade, and when the newness and excitement have diminished, hopefully you have a partner and a friend to go the distance with. That’s not to say that love and relationships don’t stay fun and exciting. They can and do. They just change shape a little bit.“